It seems like she just wants to be friends. Most women aren't the agessrgors in a relationship. If I were you, I would text her the info for the party (just the details) but don't add, you better come! I mean, it's your call, but if you really like her and you want her to come, allow her to have the opportunity to choose without any pressure, even if it's just friendly pressure. It'll work in your favor in the long run, just in case it turns out that you two don't hit it off, there won't be any hard feelings.